InRealLife
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Plans that happen.

No more "we should do something sometime". Find something to do or bring an idea of your own. With friends or people you haven't met yet, say yes and show up. Here, a yes means yes: everyone's show rate is on their profile.

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What IRL feels like

Hey! Taco night on Friday at 19:00, taqueria. 4 of us going. You in?Hey! Beach clean-up on Friday at 09:00, city beach. 4 of us going. You in?Hey! Pickup basketball on Friday at 18:30, park courts. 4 of us going. You in?Hey! First sailing lesson on Friday at 10:00, marina. 4 of us going. You in?

I'm in 🙌

Not this

Based on your preferences and 47 compatibility factors, we've identified 12 potential matches in New York who share your interests.Based on your preferences and 47 compatibility factors, we've identified 12 potential matches in Los Angeles who share your interests.Based on your preferences and 47 compatibility factors, we've identified 12 potential matches in Chicago who share your interests.Based on your preferences and 47 compatibility factors, we've identified 12 potential matches in San Francisco who share your interests.

In real life

5 plans and counting.

Pick a dot to see where it happens.

Everything happening →

No feed to scroll. Just plans to join.

Three apps. One account.

One account for all three: a name, a few photos and a quick selfie check.

A ban on one app is a ban on all three. What you do on Flirtify stays on Flirtify.

See a plan. Say yes. Show up.

The plan is already made. The place and time are set. You only decide: am I in or not?

  1. See what's on near you

    Bondable

  2. Say yes

    Bondable

  3. The place shows up the day before

    Bondable

  4. Find each other

    Bondable

No messaging phase. No "maybe we should meet up sometime." No ghosting. How it works

Trust comes first.

We ask people to meet strangers. That only works if they feel safe, and their data stays theirs.

  • 🛡️ Safe to show up

    • Every face is checked by a person.
    • You see who's coming once you're in.
    • The address shows the day before, only to the people going.
    • A person reads every report within 24 hours.

    How we keep you safe

  • 🔒 Private by default

    • We keep a rough area, never where you are.
    • Selfie checks run on our own servers.
    • No ads, and your data is never sold.
    • Download or delete everything from the app.

    What we collect, and why

  • 🚫 What we'll never build

    • No feed, no swiping.
    • No private messages.
    • No people search.
    • No likes, followers or boosts.

    What we don't do

Bring your own AI.

Ask Claude or ChatGPT what's on near you this Saturday. It finds the plan, you tap Join on your phone.

Nothing happens without your tap. Flirtify stays out of it.

Set it up

Anything to do near San Francisco on Saturday?Anything to do near Chicago on Saturday?Anything to do near Los Angeles on Saturday?Anything to do near New York on Saturday?

First sailing lessonHangout · Saturday 10:00 · Marina · 3 going
Pickup basketballHangout · Saturday 18:30 · Park courts · 3 going
Beach clean-upHangout · Saturday 09:00 · City beach · 3 going
Taco nightHangout · Saturday 19:00 · Taqueria · 3 going

Your agent can ask to join. Hangout asks you to confirm before anything happens.

Did people actually meet up?

That's the one thing we measure. Not time in the app, not downloads. The best IRL app is one you rarely open.

Joining and hosting are free, always.

Want in early?

Testing is open by invitation on iOS and Android, wherever you are in the world. Join the first testers and help shape what comes next.

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