Your own AI

Use InRealLife with your AI

Ask Claude or ChatGPT what's on near you this week, or to set up a board game night. Your AI does the preparation; you tap Publish or Join on your phone.

Nothing happens without your tap. Flirtify stays out of it.

Anything to do near San Francisco on Saturday?Anything to do near Chicago on Saturday?Anything to do near Los Angeles on Saturday?Anything to do near New York on Saturday?

First sailing lessonHangout · Saturday 10:00 · Marina · 3 going
Pickup basketballHangout · Saturday 18:30 · Park courts · 3 going
Beach clean-upHangout · Saturday 09:00 · City beach · 3 going
Taco nightHangout · Saturday 19:00 · Taqueria · 3 going

Your AI can ask to join. Hangout asks you to confirm before anything happens.

Set it up in a minute

The address to paste: https://api.inreallife.technology/mcp

Claude

  1. In Claude, open Settings, then Connectors.
  2. Choose Add custom connector. Name it InRealLife and paste the address above.
  3. Tap Connect.

ChatGPT

You need ChatGPT Plus or above.

  1. In ChatGPT, open Settings, then Apps, then Advanced settings, and turn on Developer mode. ChatGPT warns that it's meant for developers; that's expected.
  2. Back in Apps, choose Create. Name it InRealLife, paste the address above and pick OAuth.
  3. Tap Connect.

Le Chat and other apps

Add the address above as a connector.

Signing in

The first time, it asks you to sign in: type your email, then tap Allow in Bondable or Hangout on your phone. Don't have your phone handy? You can also use a code sent by email.

What it can do

  • Find activities near you
  • See your plans
  • Prepare an activity
  • Request to join or cancel your participation
  • Tell the others you're on your way

What it can't

  • Sign you up
  • Publish or join without your tap
  • Access other members' private account data
  • Know your exact location: it uses the approximate area saved in your account

Disconnect any time in the app: Account, then Connected apps.